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Aug. 12th, 2005 11:26 pmNina just called. One of the guys we graduated from high school with was in a car accident today and he died.
We weren't close, barely ever spoke, but man. It's upsetting. Mostly because I was friends with his brother, and am friends with several other people who were close to him, and I hate to see anyone grieve...I guess I'm not very articulate. I haven't seen him since graduation, but when you come from such a small school...and we all grew up together...it's almost like losing a brother. Admittedly, a brother with whom I was rather estranged. God.
It's just hard to take in, y'know? Just hard.
I'm not going to say his name here, just in case anyone from the Valdez crowd is reading this and hasn't heard yet. If you need to know, drop me a line, or better yet, just put your ear up to the grapevine.
I'm heading to bed. *hugs her friends* Love you guys.
We weren't close, barely ever spoke, but man. It's upsetting. Mostly because I was friends with his brother, and am friends with several other people who were close to him, and I hate to see anyone grieve...I guess I'm not very articulate. I haven't seen him since graduation, but when you come from such a small school...and we all grew up together...it's almost like losing a brother. Admittedly, a brother with whom I was rather estranged. God.
It's just hard to take in, y'know? Just hard.
I'm not going to say his name here, just in case anyone from the Valdez crowd is reading this and hasn't heard yet. If you need to know, drop me a line, or better yet, just put your ear up to the grapevine.
I'm heading to bed. *hugs her friends* Love you guys.
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Date: 2005-08-13 04:37 am (UTC)*hugs again*
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Date: 2005-08-13 07:09 am (UTC)Anyway, this guy was a part of my group of friends. I personally, barely knew him. But it was still very upsetting. It was like there was this person that I ate lunch with nearly every day, and suddenly, he wasn't there anymore. It was weird. And hard to see the people who were close to him greiving, because I couldn't do anything to make them feel better.
So, I know what you're going through. *hug*
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Date: 2005-08-13 11:05 am (UTC)Nina
Date: 2005-08-14 06:04 am (UTC)his girlfriend who was in the car with him got her arm mest up pretty baddly and with need 16 weeks of physical theropy to help move it just a little it is looking doubtful the she will get full movement in it.
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